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Writing a Memoir

Demi Moore has just published her new memoir, ‘Inside Out’ , a while ago. She detailed a lot of her life including the good, bad, and worse. Digging deep into her personal life, her memoir may even shock the most devoted fans. If you’re a fan, you’ll find the memoir impossible to put down once you start reading the first few pages.

How to Write an Impactful Memoir

If you’re thinking about making a memoir yourself, the
followings are some of the things you should follow:

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#1. Have a clear beginning, middle, and end

The start, mid, and end of your memoir is not marked by the
number of years you’ve lived but by the major
decisions and turning points
of your life. A good memoir grabs the readers’
attention from the very beginning and keeps it. And that’s where major
decisions and turning points come to play. When did your life become a worthy
story to share? What huge challenges changed you as a person? And what was it
that defined you as the person you are today?

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 #2. Make it vivid

Think of a memoir as a descriptive essay. You’re trying to
drag the readers into your world. In her memoir, Moore wrote about the reasons
she became interested in acting. It was all because she was dazzled by the then
17-year-old Nastassja Kinski, a
German girl who came to the US to study acting. As she wrote about her fateful
meeting with Kinski, you can vividly imagine how Moore was dazzled by her.

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It all boils down to the old golden rule for writers: show, don’t tell. Use all your senses
to describe your experiences so the readers could easily imagine how you felt
about them.

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#3. Tell the truth and nothing but

This is not a fiction novel you’re writing. Every little
detail in your memoir must be based on facts that happened in your life. If
your version of truth differs from others then try to re-evaluate the facts. Indeed,
people often look at issues and events from different points of views all the time. However, never bend the
truth or fabricate a story just to make your memoir interesting to read.

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#4. Show how much you’ve grown

As you are the most important character in the story, the
depiction of your growth is of utmost importance.  Just like in novels and movies, the main
character must go through character developments or else the reader won’t care
what will happen next one way or another.

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One handy tip to show character growth effectively is by
including only a few details at a
time. Do not drop all of the information at one point of your memoir. Instead,
sprinkle them around and reveal the details through your interactions with
other people during the important chapters of your life.

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You may also show your personal growth through the eyes of
the important people in your life. They’re secondary characters as far as the
memoir goes, but showing how their perception
change
about you is an excellent way of enriching your story.

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Conclusion

 Everyone has a story,
and a memoir is an excellent way to showcase that. You may not be as big of a
star like Demi Moore, but when you have life stories that others can learn from,
your story can have a strong impact on others.

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One last thing: make sure your memoir is not riddled with
grammatical mistakes. Yes, you may have an editor to clean things up, but it’s
always a good idea to clean your draft from typos and
grammar mistakes
before you show it to others.